One of the things you quickly realize when you are in charge of a small human, is that you talk and sing and read and talk a lot more than you used to.

Any sort of television viewing for children under the age of two for more than one hour is harmful to the brain development of the child. (Side note: Sort of hilariously, PBS does everything it can to convince you otherwise until finally admitting that, yeah maybe television for more than an hour isn’t too great.)

While I still love reading the books we have for Baker (and we keep getting more!), I’ve already memorized Brown Bear, Brown Bear What Do You See? (spoiler alert: A red bird). So! I have started reading Baker “regular” books, most frequently Oswald Chambers’ My Utmost for His Highest. What better way to stay disciplined and in tune with the Lord, than to share these insights and words with my two month old? They’re good length devotionals: I usually read one after I’ve changed Baker’s diaper while he’s chilling, staring at the poster on the wall.

When Baker and I are out on our own in the car (picking up lunch usually), we listen to The New Yorker’s Short Fiction Podcast.

These things are awesome. They have authors read other author’s short fiction works and then analyze and give insight on them. These are all free of charge, which is just ridiculous. So far Baker and I have listened to two Vladimir Nabokov stories (he’s one of my favorite authors) and a John Cheever story. I’ve listened to a few more on my own and they’re all top quality. It’s great to discover work by authors I had never heard of before or didn’t know a lot about beforehand.

On the music front, we go with a pretty wide mix of music. We do the classical thing, although it’s not as helpful as once was thought. Baker of course has been exposed to more than a healthy dose of Disney music.

A couple of nights ago as I was rocking with him, I gave myself a challenge: Sing every song from every Disney film starting with A Little Mermaid. I did pretty well, I got all the way to Pocahontas before it was time to get up, but I did shamefully struggle with Aladdin.

Anyways, Baker also rocks out to the O’ Brother Where Art Thou? soundtrack which has a great mix of traditional bluegrass songs and new moderny bluegrass. Baker also likes pretty much anything you can dance to but especially the following: he loves Jack Johnson, loves the DCB, and of course loves the traditional kids songs (Bushel and a Peck, etc.). Unlike all Getterman men before him, Baker seems to be a bit of a dancer.

So there you have it, all the new ways we’re trying to entertain our boy. It’s actually a lot of fun, despite how exhausting it can be. To see his eyes light up when Kristin dances with him or smile and giggle as I sing to him, is just about as great as it can get, I imagine.

The End

There will be a time of distress such as has not happened from the beginning of nations until then. -Daniel 12:1

We do not like to talk about The End. The Endo of All Things frightens us into silence. It seems to be an unspoken agreement amongst Christian that sermons, devotionals and conversation should always steer clear of the terrifying reality of The End.

But The End is very real indeed, and the thought of what is to come should frighten us. During those days men will seek death, but will not find it; they will long to die, but death will elude them. (Rev. 9:6) This is a promise of agony for those who do not come to know God! It should frighten us; we should be God-fearing people. Yet, we cannot allow our fears get in the way of our growth and knowledge of the Lord. He has given us but a glimpse into The End in hopes that we might use it as a tool to motivate us to prepare ourselves for His second coming.

While He has given us a glimpse into The End, He has not revealed all to us. We simply wouldn’t be able to handle it. Even those like Daniel and John (the author of Revelation) that received a very real sneak preview of The End Times couldn’t understand it. Despite their strength as Christian leaders, they were ill prepared for what is to ensue during the great battle. For Daniel, what he saw was appalling, exhausting and beyond understanding. (Daniel 8:27) The End, just like the true nature of Heaven and Hell, is beyond our comprehension. No movie, book, or human will ever be able to accurately describe or guess what will happen during those days other than what has been given to us in Scripture.

God does promise that believers will know of the day of Christ’s return. We mistakenly assume we will wake up one day and it will be the end of the world and Christ will have returned. This isn’t true. We learn through the Revelation to John that it is those who live in darkness that will be surprised by the Second Coming. Remember, therefore, what you have received and heard; obey it, and repent. But if you do not wake up, I will come like a thief and you will not know at what time I will come to you (Rev. 3:3)

How do we go about readying ourselves for The End? As believers, we are given ample instruction throughout the Bible but here is a good plan to get us started: We must fear the Lord and turn away from evil. (Proverbs 3:7) We must work every day as if working for the Lord. (Col. 3:22) To prepare for battle, we must put on the full armor of God every day. (Eph. 6:11) We must seek to spread the Word, so that when the day comes all who have had heard it might be saved. We must be fishers of men. (Matt. 4:19)

Above all else, we must repent. In the Book of Matthew we find that the very first time Christ begins to preach He simply states: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near. (Matt. 4:17) This is the Son of Man and His first words to the public are already about His Second Coming!

Do not fool yourself into thinking that The End will not happen. It has been promised to us and we have been given the tools to ready ourselves for Christ’s arrival. Obey His Word and He will guide you through The End.

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Also during February, Kristin’s mom came down to visit.

One of the things we’ve started doing is putting Baker on his belly while he plays on his Boppy.

This thing is great because it allows us to put him down while we eat, but we don’t have to put him in his chair. He can sit right next to us on the couch! Also, if we put him on his belly, it helps him work on his neck movements and muscles and get used to the sensation of being on his stomach.

Just as an FYI, he still has crazy hair:

Finally, the big event at the end of February was the great snow we received.

I was excited about the snow because it finally gave us a good opportunity to put Baker in this awesome bear outfit I picked up while I was in Indianapolis for business.

I got the outfit from H&M and it’s totally awesome, isn’t it?

Baker finally got a taste of his first snow.

Finally, to end this update, here is a picture of a very happy Baker.

Yes, yes, I know. It’s been way too long since my last Baker update.

February is one of my least favorite months. The weather is always bad and nothing really ever seems to be going on during the month because everyone is indoors avoiding the bad weather, preparing for Spring. I guess having a small human changes things because February was great this year and went be so fast!

Baker was excited about Valentine’s Day…

We tried to get Hannah in on the action, but she wasn’t so sure of it…

Sometime around the middle of the month, Baker discovered his hands.

Every now and then you’ll catch him just staring at his hands. He’s become more active with them, really just hitting stuff with them, but he definitely knows they’re there now and that they’re his. I realize this sounds completely insane to anyone that does not have or has never had a small child, but when you do have one, you will be excited too.

He’s also started flipping over every now and again from his stomach to his back…

He’s still not a huge fan of being on his stomach but he does better every time we put him on his belly.

Before the snow, the weather was ridiculously beautiful so Baker got to go on his first official outside walk!

Hannah went along, of course.

Since I miss seeing Baker during the day, I’ve been taking him into the bedroom with me in the morning while I get ready for work. I put him in his Boppy and open the blinds so the sun shines on him and he loves it.

He and I talk the whole time I get ready. I love this time with him and it gives Kristin an opportunity to have a relaxing morning and eat breakfast and watch the Today Show before I leave.

We also ventured out for our very first meal as a family…and it went about as well as you’d expect it to. We had to choose somewhere out of the way, without a ton of people since Baker doesn’t get his shots until the 9th of March. We chose this awesome little Italian place in McGregor called Luigi’s.

All was well when we arrived. He was sound asleep and we ordered our food, ate some bread and waited. And waited…and waited…I’m sure many of you parents out there know the feeling of waiting on your food with a sleeping baby at your table. It’s like waiting for a ticking time bomb to go off and time moves at an exponentially slower rate than it did just a few months ago.

Eventually our bomb went off.

So we got our food to go and ended up eating out, in!

I’m sure we have more of this to look forward to, but it was sort of an eye opening experience. I never realized how many people stare at people with crying babies. It was kind of sad, rude, and weird all at the same time. Baker still struggles at night, around dinner time. He almost always starts crying between 630 and 7 and doesn’t stop until 730 or 8, so we think he might be a little colic. It’s okay though because he is such a sweet boy and will grow out of it in a few weeks!

Famous last words, right?

The Lonesome Valley

Salvation is found through no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved. -Acts 4:12

There is only one way to experience the majesty of His kingdom and it is through the salvation found in Jesus Christ.

The stark reality of our journeys as Christians is that no one else on this earth can save you. No one else here can go to heaven for you. We need the fellowship we find with our brothers and sisters in Christ to sustain us on our journey, but that trip through the valley is ours and ours alone.

David, in Psalm 23, does not mention a “we” but instead his song sings only of an I and the Lord. Even though I walk…I will fear no evil for you are with me…they comfort me. (Psalm 23:4). This is not a trip a mother can take for her son, nor is it a journey to be led by one friend for another. The destination of salvation through Christ can only be reached by the individual; a loved one cannot will it upon them. As individual followers of Christ, we must each take our own trip through the valley.

Although our journeys must be made as individuals, we must pray for the salvation of others. We must continue to hope that they too will see the Light of the Lord. Like so many of us, Paul prayed fervently for the conversion and dedication of others. (Romans 9:2,3) He knew however, that the salvation of the individual, despite fervent prayer on his part, was ultimately up to that person and God. Even the mighty Paul could not go to heaven for someone else! Despite his years of service and dedication, even Paul could not save someone by proxy!

The journey must first begin with the individual confessing that Christ is Lord, with belief in their heart that He is risen and that we are saved. (Romans 10:9) For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved. (Romans 10:10) You cannot confess the sins of another or lay claim to their heart for Christ!

Do not despair, for there is always hope: The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish but everyone to come to repentance. (2 Peter 3:9) God does not want to lose any of His sheep. He has not forgotten about your sister. He will not forget your coworker. His patience is endless and He is willing to wait as long as it takes for those that are lost, to find Him. He so desperately wants to be found.

And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going. (John 14:3)

Does your heart break because someone in your life might not know the way? I encourage you to continually engage in fervent prayer for them.  Pray that they will be able to begin their own journey with Christ. Share with them the map to salvation but understand that you cannot force them down the road. I pray that the day Christ comes back to take us with Him, that you will know the way.

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He is Jealous

For the Lord your God is a consuming fire, a jealous God. -Deuteronomy 4:24

We belong to the Lord. Our worship, service and faithfulness belong to Him and Him alone. When we choose to devote ourselves to something other than God, He becomes the consuming fire as described in Deuteronomy.

When God sees us slipping away to something other than Him, He becomes zealous in His protection of what is rightfully His. God paid the ultimate price for us when He sent His son to die for us on the cross at Cavalry. He literally bought us with the life of Christ.  This gave us a new life and second chance, so when He sees us devoting what should be our time with Him to something else entirely, He becomes a raging fire.

He is jealous for us because He loves us so much. God expects and demands exclusive dominion over our hearts, minds, and souls. His love for us is infinite and boundless, He only asks for a fragment in return. Should we ever find ourselves letting our love for God grow quiet, He will grow jealous of what ever it is that is taking His place. Our love is God’s and we should never let something replace Him as our one true Love.

Is there something in your life that is distracting you from God? Are you giving your time or heart to something other than God? Are you freely giving away something that rightfully belongs with the Lord? For us to be anything but totally devoted in worship of Him would be denying God what is rightfully His. Don’t fall into the trap of serving or worshipping something other than God. If you’ve let an activity or person take God’s place in worship, be warned that God simply will not stand for it.

His name is Jealous (Exodus 34:14). Our jealous God is avenging (Nahum 1:2). Should you choose to exalt others before Him, His anger will burn against you and you will be destroyed (Deut. 6:15). God knows the plans He has for us (Jer. 29:11), so He becomes jealous when we devote our love to anything but Him. His love is so great for us, He becomes a raging fire when something takes our attention away from Him. How awesome is it, that the Lord of All Creation loves us this much!

The Lord our God is sovereign. He is the Redeemer, the Life-Giver and the Holy One. His name should be given honor and glory (1 Chron. 16:29). If He gives His glory to no other (Isaiah 42:8), shouldn’t we do the same? Stop making God jealous with those other, foreign gods in your life! (Deut. 32:16)

I encourage you to evaluate your life and where you devote your time and worship. Do you spend most of your days devoted to the things and people of this world? Be wary of a jealous God, for He is a consuming fire! Give worship back to the Lord; for it is rightfully His and His alone.

You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons too; you cannot have a part in both the Lord’s table and the table of demons. Are we trying to arouse the Lord’s jealousy? Are we stronger than he? (1 Corinth. 10:21-22) No, we are not.

God’s jealousy for us is unnerving, awesome, and wonderful. Praise Him, for He is jealous for us.

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Starting on the first of February, I stopped adding extra salt to everything I eat. This doesn’t mean I’m not eating something cooked with salt, I’m just not picking up the salt shaker and pouring more salt into my food. I haven’t felt a huge difference yet, and I doubt I will, but I know it will make a difference in the long run. From the linked article:

In a report that may bolster public policy efforts to get Americans to reduce the amount of salt in their diets, scientists writing in The New England Journal of Medicine conclude that lowering the amount of salt people eat by even a small amount could reduce cases of heart disease, stroke and heart attacks as much as reductions in smoking, obesity and cholesterol levels.

If everyone consumed half a teaspoon less salt per day, there would be between 54,000 and 99,000 fewer heart attacks each year and between 44,000 and 92,000 fewer deaths, according to the study, which was conducted by scientists at University of California San Francisco, Stanford University Medical Center and Columbia University Medical Center.

Those are pretty startling figures and pretty good reasons to stop consuming so much salt.

This story about evangelical churches forming their own MMA style fighting clubs in order to attract more people to the congregation, is pretty amusing. Once you get over the fact that these are guys that are punching people in the face, in the name of God, there is some pretty deep and interesting motivation behind what they’re doing…

The outreach is part of a larger and more longstanding effort on the part of some ministers who fear that their churches have become too feminized, promoting kindness and compassion at the expense of strength and responsibility.

“The man should be the overall leader of the household,” said Ryan Dobson, 39, a pastor and fan of mixed martial arts… “We’ve raised a generation of little boys.”

I totally, totally agree with this sentiment. This is something the Lord has really put on my heart and has set my heart on fire about, which is one of the reasons I started this blog and started writing the devotionals again. I’ll use some other posts in the future to talk about Christian men and Christian male leadership.

For now though, check out the articled linked in the title of this post. There’s even a Christian line of MMA-wear: Jesus Didn’t Tap. How awesome is that?

Humility

When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.
-Proverbs 11:2

It’s easy for us to get wrapped up in our daily accomplishments. It’s even easier for us to boast to others about a life goal or milestone recently we’ve reached. We will often get into a “groove” either at work or in a relationship and think that it is because of all the work that we are doing.

Why do we only begin to recognize the work of the Lord in our life, only after He has humbled us?

Have you ever been humbled by the Lord? If so, I’m sure you’ll agree that it can be one of the most harrowing and powerful experiences for a Christian. Not all pride is bad, however. It’s good to be happy with your accomplishments and proud of your faith. It’s important to acknowledge the rewards of hard work and dedication and this comes from appreciating the blessings and gifts God has given you through that. Pride can be a great motivator. You want to make your mom and dad proud. You want your boss to be proud of the work you have done.  It is important, however, to remain humble in spirit and not boastful in our words or actions despite whatever it is we have accomplished.

We have no better guide than Jesus Christ the Lord. As Christ called to the weary and burdened, inviting them to place their troubles on Him, he clearly states, “…for I am gentle and humble in heart…”(Matt. 11:29) If the Lord is humble in heart, should we not be also?

What will happen to those that refuse to humble themselves before the Lord? How will the man that has no shame in the boasting of his accomplishments be dealt with? The answer is not hidden from us, but delivered straight for the Son’s mouth: “For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.” (Matt. 29:12) You see, there’s never going to be any question: The Lord will humble you. Surely this puts the fear of God in you!

I encourage you to take a moment and thank God for all that He has done for you. Take pride in what you have done, give the Lord His credit, and continually humble yourselves before Him! He is there to care for you. He will lift the humble high.

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